Years ago, when I was a salesperson at AT&T, I sold a new telephone system to a nursing home in Augusta, Ga. I scheduled to have the new system installed late one night so the elderly residents wouldn’t miss phone calls from loved ones during the day. I was at the nursing home the night of the installation training the employees how to use the system’s features. While waiting for the installation to be completed, I wandered into the television room to watch the 11 o’clock news.
I became engaged in a conversation with a very sweet, elderly woman named Mrs. Brown who told me what it was like raising her two daughters during the Great Depression. She described how tough it was and how it became even tougher when her husband came home one day and announced he lost his job. I don’t recall what she said his job was, but I do remember the new job he found. It was five miles away dyeing denim at a huge textile mill in Trion, Ga. She told me that each night her husband would come home late with dry, cracked, blue-dyed hands, complaining about how much he missed his old job.
While they were never rich, her girls always had what they needed, but they soon began to complain about not having anything. They complained about no longer getting presents on Christmas and birthdays and having to wear hand-me-down clothes from their older cousins.
Mrs. Brown called a family meeting and announced that even though they had lost so much, they needed to be thankful for what they had left. Together they made a list of the 10 things they did have that they should be most thankful for and hung it on the wall above the kitchen table.
Within a year, as the depression deepened, she said her family lost all 10 of the things on the list, including their home. They packed and moved from their two-bedroom house into a two-room duplex one block from the mill.
I looked at her and said, “I’m so sorry, that must have been horrible. What did you do?”
She sat up straight, looked at me through her piercing, wise old eyes and said, as though it should have been obvious, “Why, we made another list!”
Mrs. Brown said so much in those five little words. She subtly conveyed to me that we develop appreciation by acknowledging and listing how much we do have in life. The tone of her voice expressed her firm belief that each of us always has something to be thankful for. And her quick, determined answer gave me a glimpse of a resilient mindset that always picked up the pieces, adapted and moved forward.
I’ve always drawn inspiration from Mrs. Brown’s story and also have found that same spirit, mindset and appreciation in the very best salespeople. When times are tough, they know they can get better. But they also know things can get worse. For that reason, they make it a practice to appreciate the opportunities and resources that are available to them.
When times get tough, remember the following:
I know another realtor in Daytona Beach who realized many of his potential listings were trying to sell their own homes. Instead of trying to talk them out of it, he decided to help them. He loaned them a big “FOR SALE BY OWNER” sign, gave them a list of the top 10 things to do when selling your own home, and provided the names and contact information for the resources needed to complete the sale. He told me he knew they would remember him when they needed a realtor. He recognized another door had opened when the other one closed.
And just in case things continue to get worse, remember the prophetic words of Mrs. Brown: “Why, we made another list!”
Dan Norman is a sales performance expert, a professional speaker, a columnist and the author of Top Ten Selling – The Lumberjack Chronicles. He has hired and developed thousands of sales representatives and hundreds of sales managers. Throughout his career, Dan has made a science of understanding the fundamentals of what it takes to be the “best-of-the-best” in sales and management performance. To book Dan Norman to speak at your next event, visit www.toptenselling.com. © 2009 Dan Norman. All rights reserved.
